Monday, May 24, 2010

Cling (May 24)

The world is not meant to be a place where clinging happens for an extended period of time. There are certain moments when the cling is a good thing, but face the facts, kids will eventually grow old enough and give up carrying their blanky around with them in the feircest death grip you have ever seen. There are of course instances in life where we have seen the cling happen. Sure you could have too much static in your clothes but the reality is that the cling is not a healthy thing over and extended period of time. It is not good for a 30 year old to continue to cling to their parents. It is unhealthy in relationships in general for there to bee too much clinging. This is not to say that commitment is bad as there does need to be a cleaving that takes place in marriage. There is a difference between the cleave and the cling. The cleave is a good thing and is one where even when the two parties are separated by space and distance they are still committed to eachother. The cling is such that there could be no space or distance without there being a catastrophic disaster. You leave the clinging to your parents to cleave to your spouse. The cling is meant to end and the cleave is meant to last unto death do you part. The cling is unhealthy and the cleave is what was intended for man.

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